tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13936285.post112949042673864022..comments2023-10-01T05:25:35.944-06:00Comments on Alyson's Wonderland: I Am Sooo FrustratedAlysonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00777811064276540882noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13936285.post-1129567944528174582005-10-17T10:52:00.000-06:002005-10-17T10:52:00.000-06:00I am having a similar problem right now. A friend ...I am having a similar problem right now. A friend of mine said that she would do something for me. It has been a few weeks and it is still not done. I asked her about it a few days ago and she got all defensive and acted like I had insulted her by asking. It is like I put her out by asking this favor... my question will always and forever be, if you didn't want to do it, why did you tell me that you would? Why can't we all just follow through on our commitments? Or not make a promise that we don't intend to keep? I think that I also need to work on letting things go :-)April_Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14269764743103016938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13936285.post-1129564185058100122005-10-17T09:49:00.000-06:002005-10-17T09:49:00.000-06:00Alyson, I totally understand what you mean! It is...Alyson, I totally understand what you mean! It is hard to plan something and you have a vision of it, and then you have to delegate, and you spend the whole time wondering if they have even thought about what they are supposed to be doing, or if they will remember about it the night before. I totally understand!<BR/>DevDevynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12056799524893359495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13936285.post-1129555016764824102005-10-17T07:16:00.000-06:002005-10-17T07:16:00.000-06:00I hate giving up control of part of a project to s...I hate giving up control of part of a project to someone else. I'd rather do it myself that way I KNOW its going to get done, but you can't do that, you HAVE to give the other person the chance. But like you said it truly angers me when they don't follow through cause it doesn't just make them look bad it makes you look bad too. I'm sorry that this happened to you.ABQ Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10730060225336941791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13936285.post-1129503094635341792005-10-16T16:51:00.000-06:002005-10-16T16:51:00.000-06:00Whatever it is, I hope time fixes it for you. I kn...Whatever it is, I hope time fixes it for you. I know that feeling so well...<BR/><BR/>(Sending hugs if you need them, and kind thoughts regardless.)Philosophical Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06158346138596472638noreply@blogger.com